My brain

I can probably say I have ran out of idea to put into my blogs, my brain is run dry and I don't know what to talk about. I could probably say that I brought a wig because I was fed up of my own hair and really didn't want all the drama with having to dye my own hair. I brought a color i know would stand out being an 80 icnh straight grey wig. Its gorgeous and looks really cool with my black beanie. but anyone who has very long hair and wears a beanie hat is great. Hoping to get my second wig soon just need to save up for it now. So I think that is all i got to say for now, hope you guys are sticking with me. much love to you all ^^ x

I'm back

I'm sorry i haven't been posting much, I currently haven't been me. I've been doing a lot of thinking and I have finally found who i am. For several years i have been confused to who i actually am but know I have found her.
If you know me in person you will obviously see I am a guy but after a long hard think (taking a fair few weeks which wasn't the plan) I have found I'm more comfortable as a girl. If you know me in person don't give me hate, as i will not stand for it. But just accept it and treat me the same way. All that is changing is my gender. Making the change is hard enough and the hardest part is telling my mum and dad, and they do accept it and i have a few friends who also know and are fine and we still laugh around. The thing im not going through, is my wardrobe, Its going to have to change a fair amount but i wear skinnies a lot anyway so not much will be needed. t-shirts and other types of clothing i shall not name need to be changed, but not all t-shirts. might buy a few more shorts. but one thing that i do need to get it my makeup, kind of ran out again. Thanks for putting up with me, means a lot and i hope you do keep reading and i try and get a few pictures up if i can.... maybe if i feel confident enough.

Feel free to comment

Arguement to whether the site Ask.fm should be shut down

recently the has been a case where a girl committed suicide due to all the hate and insults she received  over this site. for those who don't know what the site is, its a website where you can follow people and ask questions to anyone and get and answer back. but some don't use it for that purpose and just use it to through insults/hate at people, other can receive nice comments and some nice pictures like fansigns being posted.
So recently i asked a friend to send me some questions as i was bored and then she had a rant about that i should be more respectful and not use the site. Yes someone committed suicide because of it, but then we still use things which many have been killed by, e.g. a GUN!
Yes i wish people wouldn't send hate and bully people so far that they kill them self as i have been close to committing suicide myself.
Now, to whether the site should be suck down. It would be hard to monitor over a million people using this site. personal i don't think it should, i just think the people using the site should me more respectful and think about how hurtful they are being.

style and being unipue

people are always saying be who you are. Well for some its really not easy as society is against or find it uncomfortable. Well some people change the color of their hair which is something i have been trying to do for a while not but because i still live with mu parents, they aren't keen on the idea so my solution, i have brought a silver gray wig.
for others its a change in how they dress if its just a slight change or a massive change, but all the same, if they are comfy with it, let them be and don't judge them. But just be yourself and if people pick on you for being you then they have nothing better in their lives and are just a waste of time

British Weather

I will say the British weather is the most unpredictable thing i know, today started nice and it just got hotter and hotter and now im sat in my room at 1 o'clock in the morning and im still boiling hot. I wish it would cool down at night and stay hot in the day. I like hot weather but it doesn't like me. Really plays with my hay fever this time of year to so its sat inside for me for a while

I'm sorry

I'm sorry to all of you who follow me and those who are just starting to follow this blog, But i am going through a rather hard time and I'm not finding time to write all my thoughts down and post them. Thank you if you are still following and ready. Hopefully will be back up and running soon :)

Not blogged for a while

I'm sorry to all you guys for not posting in a few days, I haven't had any thoughts about anything.
However recently I started a to write down happy thought or things which have happened and put them into a little glass jar. This idea was given to me by a very good friend  of mine, Cara (thank you Cara for this idea, just took me a while to start) and for the month that i have done it, I have around 22 pieces of paper, each having one good thing. These things could be things from hearing a song that made me smile to someone telling me that I am good at playing Bass guitar for how long i have been playing. I would suggest to all of you to start one at the beginning of the year, not half way through like me.

Just a to say thanks to every one who has looked on my blog, I would like to hope some of you follow me and keep a watchful eye to see if i have new posts up. Hope you like what i put up and if you have anything to say back or have something to add please feel free to comment and let me know. Nothing will be taken personally as it is your thought on the subject.
Thanks for reading
All the best from Tiger :)

Age difference and Depression

Who says there is a certain age difference within a relationship? I mean, yes there is the whole thing about someone over 16 dating someone under 16 but, if they are not having sex, is there a problem? People are like "you're dating someone who is 15 and you 18, thats wrong" but think about it, how much of an age difference is there between you parents or other adults. I know a couple who have a 10 years difference,she is 50 and he is 40. Now if they were our age (in theirs teens) it would be wrong as she would be 20 dating someone who was 10. But surely if two people love each other and want to be with each other then let them be with each other, its not hurting any one. You don't choose who you fall in love with, and it only takes 0.5 seconds to fall in love so, let people be. Don't say they can't date someone as they will just go ahead and do it.

Now onto the sadder story. Depression is a big thing that happens to many teenagers and adults globally. Its something i know well, having gone through it myself, and knowing friends and family who have gone through it it, and its not nice.
Personal the thing i found the worst is when people tell you the smile or get back on you feet. It really doesn't help, if anything it makes it more depressing as we feel like you don't understand. What i feel people who are depressed need is someone they can talk to and tell them everything. someone who understands you.

Transgender

This is a topic a lot of people are not comfortable with so if you don't like this topic please don't read on.

The idea of being transgender is when someone who is born male believes they are female. As strange as it seems this is really common. Some people have a few months when they believe this, other go their whole life thinking they were born into the wrong body (female in a males body or a male in a females body). Some people I know think this idea is wrong, however I have no problem with this. I know a few people who are transgender and follow and talk to many on Facebook. Some transgender people go all the way with the hormone treatment and a sex change operation, others just take the hormones replacing the testosterone in the body is male and taking testosterone if they are female going to male. I don't see why some people have a problem with it, they are just trying to match their body with there mind. I think if you have a problem with it, change how you think about them.

male and Females

I know I said I will stick to a post a day but I think I will just post posts when i have time and when i think of something, which now, is most of the time.

I've had this discussion with a few people now and start to wonder if this is actually true. Can males be best friends with females, and not date in the end.
This is been something which has made me think, is it any difference? I mean that two guys can stay over night at each others house and have nothing wrong with it. " girls can stay over night at each others house and not be wrong. Yet is a guy stays at a girl house over night or a girl stays at a guys house, there is something going on. People just assume that they like each other or are dating. surely it is just the same, I think it would be pretty cool if a female friend stay over the night, have a chat, watch a few films and just have a good time. It sounds like what a couple would do. However the difference is that a couple will want to sleep in the same bed (if its big enough) and a male and female friend might want to sleep in a different room, or even together if they are that close and know nothing will go on, even if it does it wont go on for long as they could realize it isn't right. Or just keep going and have a good night, not talk about it or just say it something perfectly natural, just fun. Its not like these friends are sleeping with more people, that's something i have a in the bad section. If the two friends sleep and have sex or just kiss or whatever, and just do it between themselves, like dating but not.....if that makes sense. Friends with benefits is more the way of putting it. Very good friend and in a way helping one another out by getting out that sexual frustration either of them might have. They can look for someone to date, and stop once one is dating, but its bad to date and still have this friend with benefits. 

After Break ups, friends and relationships

It may just be me but I have noticed with me, friends and other people, when they break up with the person they were with, they seem it ignore each other, and not interact for ages, maybe not at all. From what I have experienced I have only kept in contact with a few of my ex girlfriends, but some took a few days, others took a few years to talk to again. I don't understand why we do this but surely if you trust that person then that trust and communication should stay, keeping you two close, even if the relationship didn't work

This principle of trust also relates to friends. I know I've had a best friend who started to date the girl I liked a lot, he said he wouldn't date her yet broke that promise. I've had best friends make me feel like shit after relationships, and best of all of this I find it hard now to put trust into people. I kind feel like my friends, well don't know if they are now, are pushing me away but yet you find new friends. Which is what has happened to me, funny enough she is my ex girlfriends "best friend", who also feels something similar. I can trust her and I could tell her my best secret and know it wont leave us two, and for that i am very grateful because of it.

While im on this subject, I don't get people who look for relationships and choose the people who they know treat people badly or get into trouble. I mean girls liking bad boys, please. Bitch you're just going to end up in trouble. And guys liking girls who are plastered with makeup, where is the beauty. When people say "oh they are mot my type". What is a type? I say its a dream guy/girl that someone wants, well welcome to the real world, you probably wont find them. Why settle for a type, its like pic'n'mix, don't settle for a type of person, who knows, you might find the "perfect" girl/guy who isn't you normal type. I've seen a mixture of couples.

Okay, this rant is over

Why are things gender bound

Why do items have to be this or that, like things belong to either a boy or girl for example. Girls wear makeup and guys body build. These being stereotypes in my opinion and them things can be done by either gender. Some may find it strange that a girl is body building or a guy wearing makeup. But stop and think, if you comfy doing something, would you stop if someone didn't like it. 

Another point, clothing, why is this girls and that's guys clothing. I know that the clothes are made to it the figure of that gender but what if a guy has a rather feminine figure and likes to wear female t-shirts, jeans even leggings or tights. Yes it would probably look a bit strange at first but in the end is it really any different? A girl can wear a guys t-shirt and no one would really see any different, how ever a guy wearing a girls t-shirt might be more noticeable. And why clothing branded as male or female when it is clear that both gender can wear them?

The point I want to try and get across is that you should wear what you want. If you are a a guy and like female clothing, go ahead and wear what you find comfy, if you are a girl and like males clothing go ahead and wear guys clothes. For the people who bully you because of it, they are just jealous because you being different and being yourself, which you are allowed to do. 

True Friends

True Friends will always stay with you no matter what, never leave you and always help you no matter what the situation is. If I offend people then I can't do anything, but, its hard to find people like these days. I would say I only 1-2 true friends that i know in person.
I find it really hard to talk to people and I know that, but if you don't it then fine, I can't change it. If you don't like who i am, that's fine, I just wont change who I am so like me or hate me, your choice. This could go on for a while and Honestly I don't want to be sat here for ages typing out everything.
Feel free to message me, I'm more then happy to have a general conversation, but a warning, if i stop talking its because I'm unsure on what to say next.
Hope you are all having a good day and have Awesome plans for the week to come Enjoy ^^

Choosing Family

In my opinion, choosing or creating you family would, to me, just be amazing, but you can't which is kind of a pain. Finding a new family, maybe something i would like, certainly wouldn't mind.

Just Getting Started

Hello to bloggers out there, this blog will simply be my thoughts on stuff i thinks of. I shall try and keep them sort but some posts may require to have a bit more length to them, I do hope you enjoy.

Shall i give you a little bit about me? why not.
I'm 18, and love playing bass and riding motorbikes, i would say I get on with people, whether you get on with me is a different story. I live in the UK, near Shrewsbury, not far from the Welsh boarder.
If you have any questions please feel free to comment and i shall try and get back to you. If there is a topic which you don't agree with, please don't make a huge fuss about it, this is just my thoughts on subjects.