male and Females

I know I said I will stick to a post a day but I think I will just post posts when i have time and when i think of something, which now, is most of the time.

I've had this discussion with a few people now and start to wonder if this is actually true. Can males be best friends with females, and not date in the end.
This is been something which has made me think, is it any difference? I mean that two guys can stay over night at each others house and have nothing wrong with it. " girls can stay over night at each others house and not be wrong. Yet is a guy stays at a girl house over night or a girl stays at a guys house, there is something going on. People just assume that they like each other or are dating. surely it is just the same, I think it would be pretty cool if a female friend stay over the night, have a chat, watch a few films and just have a good time. It sounds like what a couple would do. However the difference is that a couple will want to sleep in the same bed (if its big enough) and a male and female friend might want to sleep in a different room, or even together if they are that close and know nothing will go on, even if it does it wont go on for long as they could realize it isn't right. Or just keep going and have a good night, not talk about it or just say it something perfectly natural, just fun. Its not like these friends are sleeping with more people, that's something i have a in the bad section. If the two friends sleep and have sex or just kiss or whatever, and just do it between themselves, like dating but not.....if that makes sense. Friends with benefits is more the way of putting it. Very good friend and in a way helping one another out by getting out that sexual frustration either of them might have. They can look for someone to date, and stop once one is dating, but its bad to date and still have this friend with benefits.