Sunday, 16 June 2013

Age difference and Depression

Who says there is a certain age difference within a relationship? I mean, yes there is the whole thing about someone over 16 dating someone under 16 but, if they are not having sex, is there a problem? People are like "you're dating someone who is 15 and you 18, thats wrong" but think about it, how much of an age difference is there between you parents or other adults. I know a couple who have a 10 years difference,she is 50 and he is 40. Now if they were our age (in theirs teens) it would be wrong as she would be 20 dating someone who was 10. But surely if two people love each other and want to be with each other then let them be with each other, its not hurting any one. You don't choose who you fall in love with, and it only takes 0.5 seconds to fall in love so, let people be. Don't say they can't date someone as they will just go ahead and do it.

Now onto the sadder story. Depression is a big thing that happens to many teenagers and adults globally. Its something i know well, having gone through it myself, and knowing friends and family who have gone through it it, and its not nice.
Personal the thing i found the worst is when people tell you the smile or get back on you feet. It really doesn't help, if anything it makes it more depressing as we feel like you don't understand. What i feel people who are depressed need is someone they can talk to and tell them everything. someone who understands you.

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