It may just be me but I have noticed with me, friends and other people, when they break up with the person they were with, they seem it ignore each other, and not interact for ages, maybe not at all. From what I have experienced I have only kept in contact with a few of my ex girlfriends, but some took a few days, others took a few years to talk to again. I don't understand why we do this but surely if you trust that person then that trust and communication should stay, keeping you two close, even if the relationship didn't work
This principle of trust also relates to friends. I know I've had a best friend who started to date the girl I liked a lot, he said he wouldn't date her yet broke that promise. I've had best friends make me feel like shit after relationships, and best of all of this I find it hard now to put trust into people. I kind feel like my friends, well don't know if they are now, are pushing me away but yet you find new friends. Which is what has happened to me, funny enough she is my ex girlfriends "best friend", who also feels something similar. I can trust her and I could tell her my best secret and know it wont leave us two, and for that i am very grateful because of it.
While im on this subject, I don't get people who look for relationships and choose the people who they know treat people badly or get into trouble. I mean girls liking bad boys, please. Bitch you're just going to end up in trouble. And guys liking girls who are plastered with makeup, where is the beauty. When people say "oh they are mot my type". What is a type? I say its a dream guy/girl that someone wants, well welcome to the real world, you probably wont find them. Why settle for a type, its like pic'n'mix, don't settle for a type of person, who knows, you might find the "perfect" girl/guy who isn't you normal type. I've seen a mixture of couples.
Okay, this rant is over
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