I'm sorry to all of you who follow me and those who are just starting to follow this blog, But i am going through a rather hard time and I'm not finding time to write all my thoughts down and post them. Thank you if you are still following and ready. Hopefully will be back up and running soon :)
Sunday, 30 June 2013
Sunday, 23 June 2013
Not blogged for a while
I'm sorry to all you guys for not posting in a few days, I haven't had any thoughts about anything.
However recently I started a to write down happy thought or things which have happened and put them into a little glass jar. This idea was given to me by a very good friend of mine, Cara (thank you Cara for this idea, just took me a while to start) and for the month that i have done it, I have around 22 pieces of paper, each having one good thing. These things could be things from hearing a song that made me smile to someone telling me that I am good at playing Bass guitar for how long i have been playing. I would suggest to all of you to start one at the beginning of the year, not half way through like me.
Just a to say thanks to every one who has looked on my blog, I would like to hope some of you follow me and keep a watchful eye to see if i have new posts up. Hope you like what i put up and if you have anything to say back or have something to add please feel free to comment and let me know. Nothing will be taken personally as it is your thought on the subject.
Thanks for reading
All the best from Tiger :)
However recently I started a to write down happy thought or things which have happened and put them into a little glass jar. This idea was given to me by a very good friend of mine, Cara (thank you Cara for this idea, just took me a while to start) and for the month that i have done it, I have around 22 pieces of paper, each having one good thing. These things could be things from hearing a song that made me smile to someone telling me that I am good at playing Bass guitar for how long i have been playing. I would suggest to all of you to start one at the beginning of the year, not half way through like me.
Just a to say thanks to every one who has looked on my blog, I would like to hope some of you follow me and keep a watchful eye to see if i have new posts up. Hope you like what i put up and if you have anything to say back or have something to add please feel free to comment and let me know. Nothing will be taken personally as it is your thought on the subject.
Thanks for reading
All the best from Tiger :)
Sunday, 16 June 2013
Age difference and Depression
Who says there is a certain age difference within a relationship? I mean, yes there is the whole thing about someone over 16 dating someone under 16 but, if they are not having sex, is there a problem? People are like "you're dating someone who is 15 and you 18, thats wrong" but think about it, how much of an age difference is there between you parents or other adults. I know a couple who have a 10 years difference,she is 50 and he is 40. Now if they were our age (in theirs teens) it would be wrong as she would be 20 dating someone who was 10. But surely if two people love each other and want to be with each other then let them be with each other, its not hurting any one. You don't choose who you fall in love with, and it only takes 0.5 seconds to fall in love so, let people be. Don't say they can't date someone as they will just go ahead and do it.
Now onto the sadder story. Depression is a big thing that happens to many teenagers and adults globally. Its something i know well, having gone through it myself, and knowing friends and family who have gone through it it, and its not nice.
Personal the thing i found the worst is when people tell you the smile or get back on you feet. It really doesn't help, if anything it makes it more depressing as we feel like you don't understand. What i feel people who are depressed need is someone they can talk to and tell them everything. someone who understands you.
Now onto the sadder story. Depression is a big thing that happens to many teenagers and adults globally. Its something i know well, having gone through it myself, and knowing friends and family who have gone through it it, and its not nice.
Personal the thing i found the worst is when people tell you the smile or get back on you feet. It really doesn't help, if anything it makes it more depressing as we feel like you don't understand. What i feel people who are depressed need is someone they can talk to and tell them everything. someone who understands you.
Saturday, 15 June 2013
Transgender
This is a topic a lot of people are not comfortable with so if you don't like this topic please don't read on.
The idea of being transgender is when someone who is born male believes they are female. As strange as it seems this is really common. Some people have a few months when they believe this, other go their whole life thinking they were born into the wrong body (female in a males body or a male in a females body). Some people I know think this idea is wrong, however I have no problem with this. I know a few people who are transgender and follow and talk to many on Facebook. Some transgender people go all the way with the hormone treatment and a sex change operation, others just take the hormones replacing the testosterone in the body is male and taking testosterone if they are female going to male. I don't see why some people have a problem with it, they are just trying to match their body with there mind. I think if you have a problem with it, change how you think about them.
Thursday, 13 June 2013
male and Females
I know I said I will stick to a post a day but I think I will just post posts when i have time and when i think of something, which now, is most of the time.
I've had this discussion with a few people now and start to wonder if this is actually true. Can males be best friends with females, and not date in the end.
This is been something which has made me think, is it any difference? I mean that two guys can stay over night at each others house and have nothing wrong with it. " girls can stay over night at each others house and not be wrong. Yet is a guy stays at a girl house over night or a girl stays at a guys house, there is something going on. People just assume that they like each other or are dating. surely it is just the same, I think it would be pretty cool if a female friend stay over the night, have a chat, watch a few films and just have a good time. It sounds like what a couple would do. However the difference is that a couple will want to sleep in the same bed (if its big enough) and a male and female friend might want to sleep in a different room, or even together if they are that close and know nothing will go on, even if it does it wont go on for long as they could realize it isn't right. Or just keep going and have a good night, not talk about it or just say it something perfectly natural, just fun. Its not like these friends are sleeping with more people, that's something i have a in the bad section. If the two friends sleep and have sex or just kiss or whatever, and just do it between themselves, like dating but not.....if that makes sense. Friends with benefits is more the way of putting it. Very good friend and in a way helping one another out by getting out that sexual frustration either of them might have. They can look for someone to date, and stop once one is dating, but its bad to date and still have this friend with benefits.
I've had this discussion with a few people now and start to wonder if this is actually true. Can males be best friends with females, and not date in the end.
This is been something which has made me think, is it any difference? I mean that two guys can stay over night at each others house and have nothing wrong with it. " girls can stay over night at each others house and not be wrong. Yet is a guy stays at a girl house over night or a girl stays at a guys house, there is something going on. People just assume that they like each other or are dating. surely it is just the same, I think it would be pretty cool if a female friend stay over the night, have a chat, watch a few films and just have a good time. It sounds like what a couple would do. However the difference is that a couple will want to sleep in the same bed (if its big enough) and a male and female friend might want to sleep in a different room, or even together if they are that close and know nothing will go on, even if it does it wont go on for long as they could realize it isn't right. Or just keep going and have a good night, not talk about it or just say it something perfectly natural, just fun. Its not like these friends are sleeping with more people, that's something i have a in the bad section. If the two friends sleep and have sex or just kiss or whatever, and just do it between themselves, like dating but not.....if that makes sense. Friends with benefits is more the way of putting it. Very good friend and in a way helping one another out by getting out that sexual frustration either of them might have. They can look for someone to date, and stop once one is dating, but its bad to date and still have this friend with benefits.
Tuesday, 11 June 2013
After Break ups, friends and relationships
It may just be me but I have noticed with me, friends and other people, when they break up with the person they were with, they seem it ignore each other, and not interact for ages, maybe not at all. From what I have experienced I have only kept in contact with a few of my ex girlfriends, but some took a few days, others took a few years to talk to again. I don't understand why we do this but surely if you trust that person then that trust and communication should stay, keeping you two close, even if the relationship didn't work
This principle of trust also relates to friends. I know I've had a best friend who started to date the girl I liked a lot, he said he wouldn't date her yet broke that promise. I've had best friends make me feel like shit after relationships, and best of all of this I find it hard now to put trust into people. I kind feel like my friends, well don't know if they are now, are pushing me away but yet you find new friends. Which is what has happened to me, funny enough she is my ex girlfriends "best friend", who also feels something similar. I can trust her and I could tell her my best secret and know it wont leave us two, and for that i am very grateful because of it.
While im on this subject, I don't get people who look for relationships and choose the people who they know treat people badly or get into trouble. I mean girls liking bad boys, please. Bitch you're just going to end up in trouble. And guys liking girls who are plastered with makeup, where is the beauty. When people say "oh they are mot my type". What is a type? I say its a dream guy/girl that someone wants, well welcome to the real world, you probably wont find them. Why settle for a type, its like pic'n'mix, don't settle for a type of person, who knows, you might find the "perfect" girl/guy who isn't you normal type. I've seen a mixture of couples.
Okay, this rant is over
This principle of trust also relates to friends. I know I've had a best friend who started to date the girl I liked a lot, he said he wouldn't date her yet broke that promise. I've had best friends make me feel like shit after relationships, and best of all of this I find it hard now to put trust into people. I kind feel like my friends, well don't know if they are now, are pushing me away but yet you find new friends. Which is what has happened to me, funny enough she is my ex girlfriends "best friend", who also feels something similar. I can trust her and I could tell her my best secret and know it wont leave us two, and for that i am very grateful because of it.
While im on this subject, I don't get people who look for relationships and choose the people who they know treat people badly or get into trouble. I mean girls liking bad boys, please. Bitch you're just going to end up in trouble. And guys liking girls who are plastered with makeup, where is the beauty. When people say "oh they are mot my type". What is a type? I say its a dream guy/girl that someone wants, well welcome to the real world, you probably wont find them. Why settle for a type, its like pic'n'mix, don't settle for a type of person, who knows, you might find the "perfect" girl/guy who isn't you normal type. I've seen a mixture of couples.
Okay, this rant is over
Why are things gender bound
Why do items have to be this or that, like things belong to either a boy or girl for example. Girls wear makeup and guys body build. These being stereotypes in my opinion and them things can be done by either gender. Some may find it strange that a girl is body building or a guy wearing makeup. But stop and think, if you comfy doing something, would you stop if someone didn't like it.
Another point, clothing, why is this girls and that's guys clothing. I know that the clothes are made to it the figure of that gender but what if a guy has a rather feminine figure and likes to wear female t-shirts, jeans even leggings or tights. Yes it would probably look a bit strange at first but in the end is it really any different? A girl can wear a guys t-shirt and no one would really see any different, how ever a guy wearing a girls t-shirt might be more noticeable. And why clothing branded as male or female when it is clear that both gender can wear them?
The point I want to try and get across is that you should wear what you want. If you are a a guy and like female clothing, go ahead and wear what you find comfy, if you are a girl and like males clothing go ahead and wear guys clothes. For the people who bully you because of it, they are just jealous because you being different and being yourself, which you are allowed to do.
True Friends
True
Friends will always stay with you no matter what, never leave you and
always help you no matter what the situation is. If I offend people then
I can't do anything, but, its hard to find people like these days. I
would say I only 1-2 true friends that i know in person.
I find it really hard to talk to people and I know that, but if you don't it then fine, I can't change it. If you don't like who i am, that's fine, I just wont change who I am so like me or hate me, your choice. This could go on for a while and Honestly I don't want to be sat here for ages typing out everything.
Feel free to message me, I'm more then happy to have a general conversation, but a warning, if i stop talking its because I'm unsure on what to say next.
Hope you are all having a good day and have Awesome plans for the week to come Enjoy ^^
I find it really hard to talk to people and I know that, but if you don't it then fine, I can't change it. If you don't like who i am, that's fine, I just wont change who I am so like me or hate me, your choice. This could go on for a while and Honestly I don't want to be sat here for ages typing out everything.
Feel free to message me, I'm more then happy to have a general conversation, but a warning, if i stop talking its because I'm unsure on what to say next.
Hope you are all having a good day and have Awesome plans for the week to come Enjoy ^^
Choosing Family
In my
opinion, choosing or creating you family would, to me, just be amazing,
but you can't which is kind of a pain. Finding a new family, maybe
something i would like, certainly wouldn't mind.
Just Getting Started
Hello to bloggers out there, this blog will simply be my thoughts on stuff i thinks of. I shall try and keep them sort but some posts may require to have a bit more length to them, I do hope you enjoy.
Shall i give you a little bit about me? why not.
I'm 18, and love playing bass and riding motorbikes, i would say I get on with people, whether you get on with me is a different story. I live in the UK, near Shrewsbury, not far from the Welsh boarder.
If you have any questions please feel free to comment and i shall try and get back to you. If there is a topic which you don't agree with, please don't make a huge fuss about it, this is just my thoughts on subjects.
Shall i give you a little bit about me? why not.
I'm 18, and love playing bass and riding motorbikes, i would say I get on with people, whether you get on with me is a different story. I live in the UK, near Shrewsbury, not far from the Welsh boarder.
If you have any questions please feel free to comment and i shall try and get back to you. If there is a topic which you don't agree with, please don't make a huge fuss about it, this is just my thoughts on subjects.
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